If I knew that finding a partner was a serendipitous process, then I think that would have settled a lot of my fears and I would have relaxed a lot more. I always put myself out there and held out with people I was not that into or who were not good for me.
There is such a weird push to find a partner and settle down to move through your life. Now after being with my partner for years after randomly finding each other, I wish I had known things would work out and I really did not have to fret over it.
So many times I thought I would either be alone or settle for something less than I wanted. In the end, I have a partner who loves me and our life is pretty good.
I am not sure if it societal pressure on women or children or what, but you think that you have to figure all this out so soon. Completely unnecessary. Things will work out.
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